Making Peace with
Conflict
Contents
Foreword by
Noel Santiago 11
Editors
Preface by Carolyn Schrock-Shenk and Lawrence Ressler
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Introduction
by Nancy Heisey 17
FOUNDATIONS OF CONFLICT TRANSFORMATION 21
Chapter 1 Introduction to Conflict and
Conflict Transformation 23
Carolyn Shrock-Shenk
Connectedness: The Essence Of Life
Key Conflict Principles
Conflicts Bad Rap
Whats Our Goal In Conflict?
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
Chapter 2 Transforming Identity in Conflict 38
Larry A. Dunn
Identity and Conflict
The Church and Conflict
Aspects of Identity and Conflict
Ways of Relating to the Other: Exclusion and
Embrace
The Transforming Power of Conflict
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
Chapter 3 Cultural Dynamics and Conflict 47
Regina Shands Stoltzfus
What Is Culture?
Culture And Power
When Cultures Clash
Gods People Coming Together
Crossing Boundaries
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
COMMUNICATION AND CONFLICT TRANSFORMATION
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Chapter 4 Listening 59
Kori Leaman-Miller
Types of Listening
Active Listening
The Power of the Listened Word
Listening to God
Why Is Listening Hard to Do?
What Must We Do to Hear?
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
Chapter 5 Speaking 68
Valerie Weaver-Zercher
The Gift of Speech
Why Dont I Speak More often and More Forcefully?
Why Do I Speak too Often and too Forcefully?
How then Should I Speak?
Where Technique Ends and Real Life Begins
Discussion Questions
Chapter 6 The Transformation of Conflict through
Dialogue 77
Dalton Reimer
Connecting Speech and Listening
The Components of Dialogue
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
STRUGGLING WITH THE TENSION 87
Chapter 7 Choosing a Path for Conflict
Transformation 91
Dean E. Peachey
From Blame to Discovery
Begin with Yourself
Evaluate the Level of Tension
Getting Outside Help
Being Helpful When Others Are in Conflict
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
Chapter 8 Keys to Problem-Solving 101
Lawrence E. Ressler
Common Sense Problem-Solving
Steps to Conflict Problem-Solving
Its Not that Simple: Critical Ingredients for
Problem-Solving
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
Chapter 9 Forgiveness and Healing in Conflict
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John H. Powell
Conflict and Alienation
The Healing Process
Key Needs: Self-Worth, Belonging, Contributing
Conflict Dynamics
Forgiveness and Grace
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
Chapter 10 Violent Conflict 120
Ann Shenk Wenger
Kinds of Violence
Responding to Violence Internally
Avoiding and Defusing Violence
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
POWER IN CONFLICT TRANSFORMATION 127
Chapter 11 Systemic Power 131
Iris de Leon-Hartshorn
Acknowledging the Presence of Power
Systemic Power and Conflict
What to Do
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
Chapter 12 Race and Power 139
Angel Rafael Ocasio and Tobin Miller Shearer
More to Understand
Defining Racism
What Do I Do About It?
Race, Power, and Conflict
Making It Practical
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
Chapter 13 Power, Gender and Conflict 146
Elaine Enns and Ched Myers
Why Do You Make Trouble for Her?
The Biblical Vision of Equality
Backlash
Equal Hearing
Equal Opportunity
Equal Respect
Concluding Comments
Discussion Questions
APPLICATION OF CONFLICT TRANSFORMATION
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Chapter 14 Conflict in the Nuclear Family
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Lorraine and Jim Stutzman Amstutz
Handling Family Hurts
Consistent Love
Healing and Hope
Packing for The Family Voyage
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
Chapter 15 Conflict In Congregations 167
Richard Blackburn and David Brubaker
The Congregation as a Family System
Destructive and Constructive Responses To Conflict
Responding to Conflict in The Congregation
Equipping the Congregation
Responding to Conflict
Key Steps of the Decision-Making Process
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
Chapter 16 Congregational Decision-Making
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Alastair McKay
Introduction to Congregational Decision-Making
Key Steps of the Decision-Making Process
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
Chapter 17 Global Conflict 188
Gerald Shenk
Living In A Troubled World
A Brief History Of Mennonite Peace-Making Efforts
Being Reconcilers In A World Of Conflicts
What It Will Take
Our Strength
Conclusion
Discussion Questions
Notes 195
The Editors 199
About
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